Sunday, October 4, 2015

Why Lost Love is the Best Love

Can you still be in love with someone even if time has been a factor? Hell, not even just time. What about other relationships in between that time? Can a lost love be the key to why you have failed in relationships? Is it why you have not been able to move on in your heart?

Lost love reunions are a special kind of love. Since there was a feeling years former — generally in the youthful, formative years and persevering over the years — this wistfulness is not new. The couple regularly fights to fathom what they are encountering: it's such a strong, exceptional bond that they feel "crazy." And their loved ones let them know that they must be.

The fact is they are not crazy people one bit because they do know each other. Who says that you do not know this person? Because you have not seen them in years?

Science has proven that as we become older we do not change in who we are after a certain point. These lost loves know each other amazingly well. Characters don't change much over time and if they do, they only improve for the better. If they were together for 1-3 years as is frequently the case, and only an outside party split up the relationship (moved away, young in age, outsiders did not approve, etc.), they have shared formative years together and have a high chance of becoming a couple again.

There is a euphoria, a high that cannot be brought down. Others can say it's so new and it always starts off like this. The fact is you have done this already with this person so it is not new. It's just that the two of you know each other and just want to forget the world and become one.

If you do not think that it is romantic, then you're the one who is crazy. Some look for lost loves for five or ten years and will keep the search going just to know that the other person is okay. Just to know, "What if?" Is it feasible to be in this person's presence once again?




Also, these feelings for a lost love are not just a fling or a sexual experience. There is depth here. If you want to start a quick argument, say that to their face and they will not only defend their reasoning, they will defend their loved one's character.

This is because, lost lovers have said, their partner is the most "pleasing" and the most "trusting" person in their lives. This is an aftereffect of their past histories and a result of the force of being back together after such a substantial number of years apart.

No, it's not a fantasy. These are two people who have loved each other years for years and missed an opportunity to be as one; now they have been driven to right that mistake.

These stories are what make love so fascinating. No matter the number of lost loves you have had, you still have the chance to be in love again. Love is not prejudiced. Love will just happen when the time is right, even if it has to travel back to the past. Now that is an incredible love story to say the least.

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