Monday, August 24, 2015

Sex In What City Really Turned Into Sex In The City!

Now I know what the title says but before you even start to think I was not acting like Samatha. I was more like Carrie of course. Well, minus the sex for me but nor less my writing with work in turn became a date. That turned into another date! I felt like such a "Player" in that Ice Cube voice " Yeah, Yeah"!

I met this man and well I liked him for the words that he said. Now have I ever met him before until the other day no but I felt that I could ask him out, however. So what is a girl to do when she needs a date but ask a hot, successful lobbyist? This is not the normal for me, and it has been a while. So it is best to be me as always, so I felt it was time to jump feet first as I do this well!

I also needed a date for the WERK Fashion show, and I did not want to be the one that was straight alone or aka Fruit Fly. There are reasons for this too. Have you heard me laugh? So yes there are going to be people and there will be looks. Two I did not want to be the only one alone and let me tell you what girl, I would have been that is for sure!

Talk about people just being in love and happy. There was nothing ill will about anyone, and it was pure fun! That all trash talk was taken with a smile and a boot in the ass at the same time but everyone laughed. Jokes from up and down in regards to sex, politics, celebrities to fashion and let's not forget the "Bitch Please" talk. That everyone laughed and smiled it away and enjoyed the style that was pure artistic work. That art can be created by just a stitch and some cloth that came out of a worm's ass.  Oh and yes, there was ass talk too!

Now because we still had time about a week before the WERK show, we went ahead and met prior to WERK.  I can say not once did I look at my clock, and we had the best time. Thank GOD, because I all could do is here my Jewish New York pain in the butt of a mother being right once more and say "Oh, (Real Name here ), I told you so. I just knew it, and then you had to bring him to your first work assignment."

That you pitched before you even pitched it to your editor again, she said Yes. Yes I love my internship and love my new JOB and thanks again Ms. Nice Editor who puts up with my artistic ass! Wink wink and another Thank god I am smart besides pretty. I would be in so much trouble all the time if I did not have a brain!

SO, back to the mother of New York. Yes, mom was not right for once and that we did like each other more as time was spent. So WERK was going to be our second date, and I was excited for once to have a date since MR. Flames. Oh, Mr. Flames ...

It was funny in a way for me to see my date go to this Fashion show with me. I say this because he does work on the politics side of important topics. That does work on both sides of the blue and red. Now, it would have been hilarious if for say if his Republican friends saw him there. With a cute hot thing at Austin Gay Pride Week at a Fashion Show called WERK and wearing purple with a purple tie. Bitches be talking that is for sure!

He not only laughed his ass off but did agree with the beauty of all Bianca Del Rio, who was the MC. This Bitch and I think I can say this now after last night, I feel like my fruit fly cherry has now been broken! That Miss. Del Rio said that "As if a Republican would be caught dead at last night's show!"  It was funny to think that Texas is a prominently Republican party. So I wonder if I just met all the Democratic party that all lives in Texas all 2000 of them?

We did have a great time and did talk about seeing each other again. Yes, and I even got a text the next day so who knows. I just know that I am open to what is to come. Now do I find out if he is the one,  sure I do, and I like the fact of getting to know each other.  I do notice that now because I am new to this dating world, I find that I like being back in the dating game.

So I am not sure if I have found the one because if I did I would be not so excited to continue to be in the dating?  I guess that after being married to someone that did lie about their past about being gay then I suppose I am just making sure and keeping my options open until I do find the one. Maybe I do need to become a fruit fly so then I can get my radar tweaked and to stay on the path. I need someone go no Bitch, not that one, He swings to the left, Hey!

Smooches!


Sabrina Ford


Saturday, August 15, 2015

Recant... On Ghostwriter Update!

So as this morning continue...

To not only did you get the email that I wrote  but so did my Editors and HR. Well, I only sent it to one Editor and well then Editor 1 sent it to Editor 2 and then HR too. So 15 minutes ago I was quickly advised that the name above mine at the very top is the Web Designers name.

See the East Coast Kids are really about us new Colledge KIDS and my 33-year-old ass to give us a chance about getting our names out and the brand the ECK. Spreading the word is important to us Freelancers. Yes, this issue will be changed and might even be taken care of by the time I write this blog. So there is no confusion on who does what. So everyone gets the right credit, just like I am sure the Web Designer does not want to be know as a Writer.

I was glad to get a call from my Editor and was glad that my words do mean something. I am also glad that by me showing you this that sometime being louder is better and not just sit on the sideline and watch. I hope that by me being vocal with my words that it gives you the strenght for you as well. I do look forward to contuneing my intership with the East Coast Kids and look forward to watching this grow from the very begining!


Sabrina Ford


Ghostwriter??? I Think Not, Plus my Fans Know The Difference!

Dear Sabrina Ford Fans,

Today would have been the perfect morning, but it was not the way it was planned. This morning I would have had one of my Articles go to print and was not what I thought it was to be. I know everyone has to do their time, but I think I can keep beating the odds at this game.

I believe that my words do have something to say and when it is being claimed by someone else other than me. Makes me want to be honest about it. I know in the contract it stated Ghostwriters but never said who or what was going to be picked as a choice for ghostwriting. Nor did it say hey Sabrina your shit will be claimed by someone else. If not I would have never agreed to it.

Also, I did edit the article but you always are an Editor when you are a Writer. WHY, because you have to Edit all your writing before you send it into the editor. Then the editor goes from there on what photos and any other backend things. I am the beginning and by putting my name as the EDITOR only clearly states that I started off with this writing piece from the get go. Plus normally how many editors are there going to be? The editor is the Boss so why so many Bosses?


"Editor's Name"
I re- read the agreement and at this point in my writing career that I
know that I do no want to be a Ghostwriter, nor that was never my
attentions. I see that this is how the ECK would like the writers to go
down as. I miss understood that for sure, especially when I am being
posted as a writer and not an editor.

I do not think that I felt that I should be in that category with others.
Nor does the fans that read my work nor wants to see my work as a
Ghostwriter. That my fans do know what I write about and can tell my
writing and my words.  That others may not care as much as I do about my
words and then to have me hand over credit for them. Then to have my work
be spoken about in emails, that was picked apart for not understand the
wording or better words too much of the "fancy words".


I am not only interning for the ECK but for GLOBAL GLAM INTERNATIONAL,
ELITE DAILY, and iConcept Media Publishing Group and not one of those will
I be going down as a Ghostwriter. That I would be the writer and there is
no need to put down an editor when there is one. I am not going to be an
editor, and I am going to be a writer and that is what I am going to be
doing. Nor will I write to have someone that does not care as much as I do
about my work. Then get credit for it when most them could not understand
the wording or better terms too much of fancy words.

I understand that this is my fault I know I should have read it better,
and I remember seeing that ghostwriter was in the agreement, but nothing
ever states why or how ECK determined who was a ghostwriter. So I had to
make sure that this was how it was going to go down as.

The worst part is that all the emails back and forth about my wording,
then for someone to claim it that said they spent all this time editing.
That I was the one who did the edit and wrote the paper and that the paper
ended up exactly the same after I dumb it down.  After all of that, these
words of mine will not mean crap to whom you picked to take claim for my
work.

So because that I feel this way, and I am sure that you will feel that you
can place me, so I am going to give you my two weeks notice. That if you
needed me to write another ghostwriter article then I will within the two
weeks or whatever amount you need as a ghostwriter within those two weeks.
After that I will not give any more work for someone else to take
ownership as their first published work.

No thanks. I am more then some teenie bobber.. this is my 2nd round in
college who had a very good career in the Medical Field as an Insurance
Claims Coordinator working with Attornies. I have done a lot of work to be
this good and not by bowing down to what other think I should. As I and
not going to let anyone stop me or take claim of my work.

I do apologize that I misunderstood but like I said I  never really knew
who was would be considered a ghostwriter when my numbers and my words are
more than that.  I am just blunt "Editor's Name", and this is how I feel when you
get up at 5 am in the morning to see your work to be claimed by someone
else.


The total of my fans is 4007, Views to over 10k all together that reads my
work or anything that I put out weekly. That this does not include the Likes
alone or Google Veiws. I have attached the proof and my fans will go with me 
and they are all over the world. I am blunt and because I stand up for me in 
my writing and for others. This is why I am good at what I do. I not only 
believe in what I write, but I also do what I say. I wish the ECK the best 
in their new begins, but I am not going to change my mind on this subject.


Tamara

Tuesday, August 11, 2015

Sexology VS My Sex?


As I start my writing career off with a bang, I can not feel any happier about what my career will be in the future. To be interning for a gigantic company that even has worked with Vogue several times. That I am working with a corporation in New York and Vogue all in the same sentence is just wild to me. Especially coming from a small town and where everyone knows our name but not in anywhere else in the world.Now that I have these internships I will have much exposed for my writing, and that is so fresh and grateful for what is happening and coming to be. The only thing that is lacking is my love department, Well it has been closed for some time.

I believe that I am ready to date again after my Ex and have been keeping an eagle eye out, Checking to see if there is a ring on that finger. Going to places for my research for one but in the hopes of maybe? I am afraid to say this though that boys are just as fucked up as women. I know you crazy bitch.... but it is true. Men are bat shit crazy as well.  Do you know that some of these men think because I am becoming a Dr . of Sexology that it does not mean I will teach you by opening my legs your tool ass wannabe.

Last night a Dr. of Psychology said I was boring because " Being with one guy and wanting to have sex in different locations of the world". That I was not experienced and how can I be into "SEXOLOGY" when I am so Normal and Vanilla? That, no one wants to read about being Vanilla.

Now was I going to tell him where I got the idea of making love in the different location. No, I will not tell him when married we did a "couples thing" and the wife every time her and her husband made love she would steal a rock from the location. Well, all I could think about was no I do not want to carry rocks all over the world and bring them back home. Now did it give me the idea of yes make love everywhere in the world and be with one person. Sorry if that make me normal and vanilla than fine. However, was I going to say my ex and I was having sex in bed with another couple. NOPE.... Nor was I going to say that I did everything I could to keep my Gay ex-husband from having a wandering eye. Nope . Ha, me Vanilla,  look I am not a hooker, but I am in my bedroom when I am with that one person. Now will I tell you my readers sure no problem but people like that do not even deserve any further time than what was spent.

I felt that it vulgar of him to say, and how dare he be a Dr. that thinks that way. I have noticed that the men that come across my path believe that is what a sex therapist is. It is so much more than the action of sex that others need help with like the Dr. he apparently does have sex issues and does and should see someone about it. I feel that sex is a lot if the inner lining of why people get so mangled up in the brain. That the lack of love is not the way we as humans are meant to be. If there is no sex, no love, no person then you have a making of a crazy person waiting to come out. That is why I am becoming one after my ex and me not knowing what was behind closed doors and then the dealing with the closet being fully open. So yes my vanilla experienced ass did not feel the need to be frank with a tool, but I will with you.

The another reason I  know that I can be a sexologist is because I am very free with who I am and that I can freely speak about the subject to make an impact on someone's life. That there is a probability of hope for them and the future of love for them as well. Also, I want to be a part of this science and how I can make a difference from my studies and passing to others what I learn. That is why I made these changes in my life so I could help and spread a better word about sex and the way love can be.