Thursday, June 18, 2015

Are We Making Love or Is This Bow Chicka Wow Wow

When Aristotle had the thought process of Two Bodies and One Soul, was there another book anywhere I am just asking? Just curious in what would have been his thought process in what the difference in Making Love was or is this This Bow Chicka Wow Wow, the dirty tango, or was it just another Knicker Snot? Meaning was it a Tap that kind of thing on the Roster or are you making love to your mate?  Making Love is what you can say in a nice way of putting “just having sex and nothing more at this time”. Alternatively, it could also mean just pure animal sexual chemistry. How can you tell the difference and what if you are making love and you just do not even know it? What are the signs, what is the classifications for making love and if you are not how can you? Maybe Shagging is just shagging but how do you know when it turns to Love Making.


Now there have been studies both men and women allowed to have their brains scanned by an MRI, and they found that Love and Lust were not that far apart. That the feelings of wanting to hump air that there is a reason and seems that they are not that far apart from each other. You have heard of that saying your love is my drug, well it is not too far from that either. The desire of sexual wants does overlap with the emotional love that even Lust can transfer into love or the other way around. Look I do not think the Man/Woman is going to kick you out of the sack because you want to make whoopee with each other because these are ordinary chemical reactions that you are feeling. It goes hand and hand and that you are not mad for having these falling in love yet feelings. No, and it is even possible to fall in love at first sight. It happens it does, think about it when you see each other for the first time you
 A:  You go I want to go play puzzle with this person. Alternatively, B: you quickly think about how the two of you are quickly going to make love as soon as possible without being arrested. Oh, better yet let's not have a classroom study us like we were wild animals in the act. The studies also show that no your are not needy after sex that you do feel those connections of not wanting to be away from each other. That Love is being created by the two of you because again it does take two to get a party started. That it is okay to feel the feeling of want and to be more proximate to each other, because once again your brain is causing this effect another one that goes hand and hand with each other. That it is okay to feel this and no your not being crazy because that is the correct reaction for your brain to act after the sexual dance.


Now when in the act of this art of love are you able to see if this love making is the regular mechanical order of things. You know The Wiki How of How to have sex. The rubbing, licking, sucking, you name it the wild mechanical order of lovemaking. Meaning that one person is the Object, and the other is the one with the Sexual Appetite, and that sucked you clean dry. Now please do not get me wrong that is not a bad way to go but if you wanting more then do you remember two powerful sexual phrases that I said. One, It takes two to get the party started and the other one that is the most important one of all Two Bodies One Soul. Powerful phrases what do you mean well it is a mindset, you are telling yourself “The Brain” yes or no. Through all of this it had nothing to do with a foot, or hand but your brain. Now the hard part is one may reciprocate, or they both want it and then it grows from lust to love.  When you make that mental note, I am his, and you are mine that is when the sex starts to turn into lovemaking. One climax to another begins to create a chain effect that the lust is no longer and is becoming this incredible love making session. That now instead of the Mechanical order of sex it has let's get lost with each other and never come out again. Then at that moment it becomes I become Yours and You are mines. That the want of who climaxes first is not the order of things, but it is more about the tenderness of being together as one.

So when you are ready to make love you will let go of your walls and be one with each other. Are you prepared to surrender to your mate and give them yourself if it is the start of something wonderful when it is right? Now again this has to be both of you feeling of letting go to each other, it all in or it will not work. Someone will end up very disappointed in the end and unsatisfied as well. The other things are to remember to build a healthy sexual relationship and create an incredible love affair. Think of it as a test once you are ready to make that move forward in the relationship think about all the practice of making love to fall in love with one another. Seems like all of love making would do a fantastic scientific love experiment.





                                                        
                                                          Sabrina Ford 

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