Wow,
what a week, such incredible changes that
happen day in and day out. The world is
changing some for the good and then of course there are the bad moments too.
Most of the time the world can look pretty impressive,
but it is the way you think in regards to
everything. I mean everything can be ugly or something can be critiqued on
how things should be. Or you can look at it a different way and find the beauty
in what it can be. What if everyone just stopped and thought differently or better
yet just stopped assuming and instead check the facts. Before you acted or
responded in a way that you can not take back. What if instead of assuming that
you verified what your were feeling was correct. Instead you did not, did things in a way that just made you both
feel like crap in the process of it. That everything now is complete upside down,
and you both just lost. Now do you make the choice of kissing and making up or
do you kiss in tell and say goodbye.
Even I have a hard time picking and choosing my battles. When to say
something and when to not and again if you do not know me keeping my words to myself tend to be very hard. Then another part I have even noticed that being back
home that I am not up north anymore either. Meaning just seeing human portray the ups and down of different forms of discrimination
between each other. The sadness that keeps causing this type of terrorism is the lack
of communication that is not being used. Everyone says talk about your feeling
but when you do, then you're looked upon
as something or someone Ill and Ill willed. That your are the weaker human than the others because you want to talk
instead of keeping up with the fight. All
this week there were a lot of different opinions
in regards to the news or what people
thought of a Flag or Peps in love with each other. A lot of humans
have a lot of different opinions, a lot
of strong opinions. Everyone has their
right and freedom of speech baby all the
way! What I just do not understand is why everyone has to be mad and upset when their point is not being accepted. What is the purpose of why you take it so personal
when you do not see eye to eye? The sick part
is that because of the ugliness that whatever
point that you were making even if it was Pro VS Con. You are right, and they
are not it only defeats the purpose of the cause that your fighting for. That now the point that you are making
is null and void by your reactions. It
only seems to make any cause that is going on for the others around just kind of
kills the fun when others are being the party popper, or a better word just
negative.
So if you see this happening instead of becoming mad or upset. Stop and breath and know that sometimes when
people are scared of what they do not
understand can cause a terrible side effect. That lack of accepting and wanting
to change is no reason to become upset because of what? Of what they think or that they will think less because you
think differently than them. Remember that is it is okay for them to feel
scared or insecure about what will
be. Sometimes
you have to accept that your point will never be
made that they will never understand why you feel this way. Period
nothing more and accepts it but does that
mean that you bow down, Hell no. Let me say this again never bow down for
believing in a dream or believing in your feelings. They are your feelings, and you are allowed to feel this way. That it OK
for the both of you to have different options
but you just show the better foot instead. Do not keep feeding the fire when you
damn well your point is not going to be made. Due to reasons that must be a
lack of intelligence on their part for
dropping the standards of not improving.
Not allowing the acceptance of change and
instead of keeps statistics down and keep
polls the same. Are you not tired of
fighting and yelling at each other over such silliness that it has become a
whopper of a fish tale? Now here is
something to remember when you are around such silliness. Words only have the power if you
allow it to have power, that you allow it to win and take over what you feel. Remember
you can control this outcome with the negativity of others not willing to. You
can only control your mind and your respect for the life of others.
So what have I learned this week
weakness kills the love if you only allow it?
That you control it baby and that words only matter if you let them too. Now you can use this thinking
across the board, with loved ones, a coworker, a potential mate that could have
been. Who knows take your pick but no matter what you can use it and remember it. It will save you so much heart pain when
you just have to accept that they do not feel the same way or care in the same way. Now at the end of the day you can say
that You were proud that you kept your
cool and that once you did not allow them
to win. Remember its just words and if you enable
it to control you, then they win and get
what they wanted in the end. So be proud
you did not bend that you took control and that for once that you kept what you
believed wholesome and protected as it should be.
Sabrina Ford
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